Are you looking for a relationship counsellor in Queenstown?
My name is Sonia Voldseth. I offer couples counselling and marriage counselling in Queenstown. I’m a member of the ICF.
Would you like to get a better relationship with yourself and/or your partner?
Do you long for a more awakened relationship? One in which you learn and grow together to become your best selves?
I firmly believe this is the purpose of relationships. But relationships are messy. We each have different backgrounds, experiences and beliefs which can be tricky to navigate.
We each have different ways we communicate as well as different love languages that make us feel understood and respected. Plus, we all carry our own baggage which is most easily and often triggered by the person we’ve partnered with.
It can become easier, once you learn how to communicate differently, identify what your own beliefs about relationships are, what triggers you and your partner (and begin to heal), and find ways to move forward differently.
I know that loving, healthy relationships are possible as long as both of you are willing to get out of your own way and put in the work. I will guide you to figure out what’s not working and how you can change the dynamic, as well as working with you on the stuff that’s holding you back personally.
Individual relationship counselling
Next to couples coaching and counselling I also offer individual relationship counselling. This means that you come for individual counselling, and work on your own issues in the relationship. And that of course changes your relationship.
When you feel better and/or your partner feels better, there is more understanding and less judgement. You’re more open for your partner and the relationship can flourish again.
If your partner is not ready or not willing (yet) for counselling, it may still be beneficial for you to come. When you change, the relationship changes with you.
You’re welcome with relationship issues such as:
✓ Addicted to love
✓ Adultery, affair, infidelity
✓ Autonomy in relationship
✓ Commitment phobia
✓ Communication problems
✓ Cultural differences
✓ Emotional infidelity
✓ Fear of abandonment
✓ Insecure in relationship
✓ Intimacy issues
✓ Marriage problems
✓ Midlife crisis
✓ Relationship anxiety
✓ Relationship fights
✓ Self love
✓ Sex addiction
Individual relationship counselling and couples counselling is not only for partners, but also for other types of relationships (in families).
Feel free to contact me if you have any questions, or if you would like to make an appointment.
Registered with ICF